I did watch House... the first two seasons, I was a devoted fan... then, truth is, there was just too much goin on, and I lost the thread.
Now, Rowan, you are absolutely correct that House, the character is outrageously toxic. i don't know if my history makes me more accepting of having such a character around... I worked the trades for seven years, and my father was my boss for a time, as was my brother... and both of them are also toxic in the workplace... Owning the company does give one a boatload of leeway. In the trades, they don't have to have a reason to fire you. There are eleventy guys sitting on the bench, waiting to take your place... If you wanna work, you take it.
However, a TV drama, by its nature, is exquisitely contrived. The days of ER-- where the on-screen medicine was trying to get it 'right' are most distinctively over. The "special effect" of the fade into the body to follow the hypothesis is cool... It mimics the CSI format, but does so in a much more "enlightened way" because it is medical, not mechanical.
That some women find House, the character, attractive, is not far fetched... it is far too common.
Considering the dreck that replaces the dramas, tho... I'll take his drug-induced, self-loathing, vicious tongued character over "ANY NON-REALITY GAME SHOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" Please...